Posted by Shelley Olsen on June 13, 2004:

Paul's passing on June 9, 2004, was a shock in spite of his long illness. I had been with Paul only a few hours before I received the call. The staff at the facility is in shock as well, as he was showing improvement with his breathing and determined as ever. I know that Paul is in calm. He is strong again. He is at peace once more. He is himself again - he is whole. And he is still my wings. I am so grateful for having the privilege of sharing 31 years with this extraordinary and wonderful man. And for the opportunity that I have had to experience West Point. The years Paul spent at West Point, and the friendships he formed there, measurably contributed to his character - his integrity, his courage, his strength. his nobility of spirit, his intelligence, his dignity, his concern for the welfare of others. I have never known a kinder, gentler, more loving person. Paul will forever be my hero. While in the hospital, I posted a piece of prose I adapted on the wall directly across from Paul's bed. I dedicated it to "My darling, Paul:" HERO. Someone I admire. Someone I look up to. Someone who gives me hope. Not a myth, or an icon, or a legend - Someone solid, genuine, and real. An ordinary person who does extraordinary things. A hero picks me up when I am down. Believes in me before I believe in myself. Inspires me to expand and embrace what's possible. Helps me realize that I can be a hero, too. Paul was deeply moved by this, and so very proud that I wrote this for him to read every day. Paul wished to be cremated. I am planning a memorial service in the Chicago area. It will be within the next several months. In love, Shelley Olsen

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