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View a eulogy for John Arthur Bender, USMA '49, who passed away on January 3, 2000.

John Arthur Bender

West Point, 1949

Be Thou At Peace

Posted by Terry A Powers on March 9, 2026:

www.findagrave.com/memorial/36711953/john_arthur-bender

John Arthur Bender
Birth
20 Apr 1925 Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, USA
Death 3 Jan 2000 (aged 74)
Tacoma, Pierce County, Washington, USA
Burial
Tahoma National Cemetery Kent, King County, Washington, USA
Plot Section J Row E Site 99

Inscription
COL USA
WWII KO VN
SILVER STAR LM
BSM PH AM ARCOM

Family Members
John's Spouse
- Charlotte Jane Gilliam Bender 1929-2023 (m. 1950)
www.findagrave.com/memorial/262594360/charlotte_jane-bender

ALSO
John and Charlotte's Children

- John Junior born abt 1954
- Wendy Lee born abt 1960
- Matthew Ward born 1962

John's Parents married in 1916

- George Arthur Bender 1895-1932
- Kathyrn M. "Kate" Bender nee Watson 1890-1979

John's Siblings

- Betty Bounds nee Bender 1918-2000
- Jane Hefner nee Bender 1921-2022


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